Money and Shame
I’m going to get Real and Vulnerable my worthy Friend!
Let’s talk about shame and money!!
It’s a thing!
It’s been my big, dark, dirty secret 🤫 for most of my married life!!
We don’t talk about Bruno!!!
On a scale of 1-10, my shame level around money management has been around 10 for most of my married life!!
And do you know what makes shame grow like cancer inside of you???
1. Secrecy
2. Silence
3. Judgement And I can tell you my friend that “Ain’t Nobody Got Time For That!!”
As I have started taking action to change my relationship with money 💰 and to understand why I’ve had so much shame around it all, I am accessing much more compassion and grace and empathy for myself and my shame is shrinking and shriveling up!!
Yay!!!
Yes, you heard that right, SHAME cannot survive when you offer YOURSELF Love❤️, Empathy and Compassion!
These emotions are the Super Powers for stopping the growth of shame inside you!!
And I am sooo grateful for that change!!
And today I can say that my shame level has gone down to a 4!! My goal is to get my shame level to a 1, but for now I am grateful that I am opening myself up to the truth that my true worth doesn’t come from how much money I save, invest, manage or spend!!
ARE YOU tired of living in the shame shadows in your life!!
Are you tired of your shame story around your money??
I say it it time to put down the heavy shield of shame and start stepping into some love and truth.
TRUTH: YOUR Value is NON-NEGOTIONABLE!!!
You are not more valuable because you manage. your money better!
You are not more worthy because you have learned how to successfully invest your money!
And you won’t be better or happier if you are rich!!🤑
Things will get better once you understand the powerful truth that you are a divine daughter of God
and that you are already inherently rich, abundant and enough exactly as you are today!! In this moment.
So I want to you to start noticing your shame story . Get curious about it. Notice what comes up for you when people talk about money.
The more you can name shame, the less power it has over you.
I believe in you!
You can never have a truly powerful and deep relationship with yourself until your heal your pain around money.
It’s a thing.
A thing we haven’t talked about.
But I am changing that.
Let’s start talking about our shame around money.
This is true financial freedom.
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